Overview of A Grief Observed

A Grief Observed, really taught me a lot about myself and about the grieving process. The major things that I will take away from this book are 1) suffering is a normal part of life...whether we want to or not, we will all experience grief in some form or fashion. C.S. Lewis showed different ways in which one can grieve. 2) Lewis showed that it is okay to be vulnerable and transparent. We so often like to deny or ignore our feelings and try to push them to the side in fear of what others may think. He has inspired me and showed me that it is okay to to be weak at times 3) With his metaphor of the "card castles" I more clearly realize the importance of the foundation upon which we build our lives on. It is important that we check and make sure that our relationships with God and others are legit. 3) and finally it is important to remember that despite how aweful our lives may be....there is always hope. Times may get dark and you may feel lonely, but God is always there. It is okay to be real with God and ask him questions...it is in those times of asking questions and seeking him that we truly find him.